Dreams and wishes
written by Anthony
Own your own body (belly) /
soul (heart)/mind (brain)
What makes that we can not do it:
wrong life rhythm
Approach freely others with curiosity as mirror, mates, companions. Expecting people to mirror you = tantra.
Tantra = all reality has something to show you. If you open to everything, everything is open to you.
Have an intention to see the sacredness in other people, that something bigger that is there. Otherwise you are just pretending.
Choose non privacy for more mirroring. One on one = manipulation possibility high.
People that close off have a fear to be seen, so look for the gift in the other.
Build relationships with life boats from open attitude (= NON clinging).
To be in a tantric relationship = able to be in contact with the world.
Now we have a destruction relationship with the world around us (and in our one-on-one relationships).
Heal your body, soul, mind
Most woman are “frozen” in their erogenous zones (blood out of their sex) -> sexism
Most man are overheated in their erogenous zones (blood towards the sex) -> sexism
Healing of the body -> end of guilt and repression.
Feel real connection to people = not excessively sweet or bitter (desire refusal)
= brains = humbly try to understand the world you live in (concentric circles from yourself).
Do not postmodern = do not live in the “I, me, mine”
See Yann Thibaud’s New (C)age traps (see our Newsletter week 27)
here and now
non violent communication
Ask yourself who owns your mind, what is the internalized voice composed of (like a smart yet lifeless taperecorder). How rich can this recorded voice become if you improve the inputs?
How do you get over moments where life seems overwhelming, how do you function well without supressing the backlog? Joshka: basic trust that what is changeable is not you, and only temporary. After all this, the real you still exist
(persists). Know there is a reason for you to be here, you won’t wither unless you choose to self sabotage.
Perverted tradition, morals and religion have kept us (we keep ourselves) from healing, from becoming adult.
It’s not 0 or all, fuck or fuck not. There are more letters to the alphabet. See more of the world. Don’t say you are only content with. In sensuality and tenderness there is more available which is not just friendship OR sexuality.
Stop lumping everything together and treating only parts of your body as sacred. The voice in your head is a concoction of strange random instructions.
There are memories to be suppressed, and they have something to sell, so they cannot have trust in everything being ok if they allow sexual feelings. Mixed frequencies: on one hand, you cry out for tenderness, on the other, you scream:
Understand the world you live in, and yourself, to heal.
When we live in complete unknowing while incarnate, we live in isolation and fear, and are perfect victims for capitalists.
Communicate! (is not: living in monologues clashing).
Love = commodity for money, …?
weakness = follow biological “clock”, copy parents, do the opposite parents, dependency, mama papa filling emptiness inside + fashion (lat, polyamory, parent). Compensating in…?
To let love in, you have to go beyond sexism, tradition,…
You originated from a moment of love
where mama and papa came together and made you. Learn about that moment, and you learn about yourself.
Why? And where did that love go away?
Lessons for child? 1-3year /3-7year/7-14year/14-21year/+21year?
Parents are portals. Start seeing them as fellow adults (and perhaps deluded children on a pedestal).
If you cannot have adult to adult conversations with your parents at all, then the relationship is toxic.
Parents should help their child become a responsible adult (not about money, but about understanding the world, and teaching the kids that they have skills, innate talents, and purpose to be stewards of). You are not a pet doll. Don’t let parents use your chi
for recreational purposes. They are entitled spoiled parasites.
Live from your double destiny: incarnation destiny and soul destiny.